Delays, Disappointments, Disagreements: What the Three Ds Are Teaching You
Delays, disappointments and disagreements feel like setbacks. They are part of the journey, teaching patience, preparation, alertness and attention.
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From Worst to Best, the Road Is Called Better
“Why is this happening to me?” keeps you where you are. “What can I do to make this better?” moves you forward. How one question shifts you from effect to cause.
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Right Action Comes Second. Why You Have to Begin Before You Get It Right
Waiting to get it right can keep you from doing anything at all. Right action is rarely found by thinking more. It is built by acting, noticing what happens, and adjusting.
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You Don’t Hate Red Lights. You Hate Not Being in Control.
Waiting never changes. The meaning we give it does. Learn why a red light feels like lost control, and how to audit which of your meanings you earned and which you borrowed.
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Feedback Is the Breakfast of Champions. Are You Skipping It?
You can’t work on all 100 pieces of feedback, and you don’t have to. Listen to all of it, act on what you’re ready for, and find the joy in the effort, not the destination.
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Are You Going with the Flow, or Just Avoiding Something?
Going with the flow can be real flexibility, or a beautiful name for avoidance. Here is how to tell the difference, with three questions to ask yourself.
